Did I enter the “Spirit World” if I dreamt someone offering something to me?
Here’s the background info in my dream:
Apparently I transferred schools and this boy (a really good friend of mine) I like started to hit on my friend. My friend got really mad because that boy said “Hey listen. I’m really upset at how she transferred, and I don’t know, now I just seem to like you a lot. I really do.” The reason why she’s getting mad at him is because she has a boyfriend (in real life as well) but here’s the twist. He doesn’t even exist in my dream. That’s why the boy is telling her he likes her is because in her mind she’s in a relationship but to everyone else she’s single.
So this one day I come home and I see my friend and the boy both in my house by my bedside standing and arguing. I asked what’s going on and my friend pulls me and says, “Yo. It’s not working out. They’re getting the wrong idea.” Then I ask, “Really? It’s that bad? So is it going to be now?” And she goes, Yea we gotta do this now, and hands over a ring to me. I took the ring and I walk over to the boy and I give him the ring to put on my finger. He grabs my right hand and just before he was about to place the ring on my finger I pulled away and I gave him my left hand and said “You’re supposed to put it on my left”.
Here’s what kinda got me thinking and made me post this here:
He kept asking “You sure? Your left?…Are you sure? Left not Right?” And you know how people would squint there eyes when ask questions like that to the person they’re talking to? Well that’s how he made his eyes look like the whole time. He kept squinting to see if I was sure about what I was about to do…finally in the end he put the ring on my ring finger in my left hand.
Superstition 1: In my country we don’t take things with our left hand. We just don’t. I don’t know the full story behind it, but I do know that it’s disrespectful to take things with our left hand if someone offers us anything.
-My friend offered the ring to me and I took it with my right.
-I gave it to the boy and he takes my right hand but I pulled away and showed him my left hand.
-What bothers me is how he kept looking at me and asking me the same question.
->After I awoke, I felt I disrespected him..or someone..but I don’t know.
Superstition 2: In my country when you have a dream where you are offered food by someone (anyone), you enter the Spirit World. There’s also another Superstition attached to that where the person is a spirit taking the form of anyone (could be your mom, dad, brother, sister, etc.) and what they offer could be anything. If they offer it and you take it, then you enter the spirit world.
My question is: Was I about to enter the spirit world? Because even though I took the ring from my friend, I didn’t wake up at that time, I walked on over to the boy and gave it to him.
Also did I reject the “spirit” by pulling my RIGHT hand away and giving them my LEFT?
I have another question: In reality, aside from the whole spirit crap, this dream was about the boy I like, me transferring and ending up getting engaged to him..does this mean something in reality?